SEATTLE — Etiquette reminders and tips just before gathering for the holidays:
- Silence your digital watch: we all understand that some messages need quick responses, but we don't need to hear them. And, when you do respond, do so quickly.
- Stop arguing: the pandemic might have made couples, friends, and siblings too comfortable with saying what's on their mind. When you are with company, avoid snarky comments and arguments focus on the conversation.
- Stay engaged in the conversation: make eye contact, offer thoughtful and engaging answers, don't necessarily think too much on how you are going to respond such that your eyes glaze over.
- When engaging in conversation, always ask about the other person first. If they beat you to it, answer, but always make them feel heard by asking about them.
- Share your dietary notes at least a week before a gathering: at least one week before dinner, reach out to the host and (quickly) inform them of any severe dietary notes (not preferences), and ask them if any of the dishes will be able to accommodate. If not, say that you will bring your own dinner.
- Arrive no later than 10 minutes late: we get it things happen and people are busy.
- Bring a hosting gift: tried-and-true, bring your host's favorite type of wine or liquor, or something you know they will enjoy in their home. Candles and washroom projects are a safe bet.
- Dress up, a little: your host has put a lot of work into this dinner, so you should too in your own way. Plus, it will be nice to look back at family photos with everyone looking their best.
Segment Producer Suzie Wiley. Watch New Day Northwest at 11 a.m. weekdays on KING 5 and streaming live on KING5.com. Contact New Day.